Blaming others is giving your power away

Everyone loves to blame everyone else in order to not look at themselves.

Pointing fingers, we blame our parents, we blame our exes, we blame our work, we blame our colleagues, we blame our family, etc etc etc.

I want to challenge you to take 5 minutes to sit down and write out a list of ALL the people you blame for everything you feel has gone wrong with you and that was wronged unto you.

When you are done with your list, take an honest look at

– what was your role in this situation? 

– what did you learn from this situation? 

– did you grow from this situation?

– are you gaining anything from holding onto resentment/anger/hurt in this situation?

There is always something to learn from every single situation. You can either allow it to help you grow or to keep you locked in with all the feelings of anger, hurt, etc. Or you can firstly forgive yourself for not seeing it, allowing it to happen, trusting, etc etc. And then you can give that person the freedom from the situation you’re keeping them locked into, thereby freeing yourself from the heavy chains of being locked in and you can now move on. 

In the end you will find there can only be gratitude (maybe not immediately, but at some point down the line) for the situation (or person) as it shifted you to where you should go. It helped you in the evolution of your soul.

In gratitude to ALL who taught me, who hurt me, who rejected me, who said I couldn’t, who said I never will, who said I was not good enough… Thank you, I love you. 

~ Angy-Lee ~

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